I haven’t yet felt grief from something as serious as a family member's death. But I think the closest thing I’ve come to grief was when I have lost a friend. I lost my bestfriend when I was was about 10. She just decided she didn’t want to be friends anymore and it was because she wanted to join a more popular friend group. So I assumed there was something wrong with me, and I just couldn’t understand why she wanted to be popular so bad.